So I'm starting this as a way to be honest with myself. I don't expect followers, I don't expect my friends to ever look at this really. I just need to figure myself out again.
So this is where I try to do that. This is where I think it began.
I've always had trouble expressing my true thoughts and ideas to them and now people just see me as a less than intelligent being.
I deserve it though, I did this to myself sometime during middle school.
I was always the greasy little fat girl with no friends and close to no socialization skills.
I somehow mustered the courage to join my local youth cheer squad.
There I quickly learned what I thought was a valuable lesson.
No one likes you if you're smart.
I began dumbing myself down. Consequently I found myself with more friends.
But at what cost?
I secretly clung academia. Books of wars passed and great human accomplishments lined the inside of my closet, a dark place that only I knew of.
I still managed to keep my grades up but at some point teachers began publishing grades, and honor rolls were written and hung.
(Now I need to break from this story to say that it may not sound like much now, but it truly has shaped who I am today. I bet if you look back to your days as an impressionable young pre-teen you'll understand just where I am coming from.
We all have defining moments, whether they are good or bad. Whether we are young or old.)
I had been figured out, and was once again friendless.
Now some people may say " you probably weren't the only person on the honor roll, why not make friends with the others?".
To them I say: I wish I could have, but for some reason they rejected me too.
I wish I knew why.
I was dead set on not being a loner and actually worked hard to not be on that honor roll.
It shouldn't make sense because it doesn't.
I had tons of people to make fun of me, but I had a few friends, and unfortunately during that time that was all that mattered.
You see, somewhere along the way, playing dumb turned into a full time job for me.
While I still cling to the love of knowledge and reasoning and simply picking at my own brain, I have lost the skill to verbally debate, explain, and present all these ideas and thoughts flooding my mind.
I never gave up writing though.( I will admit that somewhere along the way I forgot how much I enjoyed grammar. Because of that I totally suck at using it properly.)
So now writing is all I have, and I guess it's all I need.
But I guess that's just how I see it. I could be totally wrong.
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